I was at Macy’s the other day and found myself in the fragrance section.  From all the spritzes sprayed my way, I had a hard time picking out one that I really liked.  After awhile they all started to smell the same.

I’m assuming I’m not the only person having a scent-identity crisis and decided to get some expert tips on how to pick your own signature scent for both your wedding and any other day.  I turned to fragrance expert, Harry Slatkin who has created fragrance brands for Elton John and Sarah Ferguson, Duchess of York as well as Bath & Body Works, Henri Bendel and Victoria’s Secret. Here's his expert advice on how to find the perfect perfume for you:

1. Browse & Explore:  Look for fragrances in different places: a tiny boutique, an open market, or on a trip abroad.  You'll be in a relaxed mind-set when you try it on.  And every time you wear it, you'll be reminded of your holiday.
2. Reflect Your Personality:  Discuss with the person behind the perfume counter, your interests and lifestyle.   Share the following details: What kind of car you drive, what kind of dog you own.  The more you reveal, the more luck you'll have finding a scent that suits you.  If you're the life of the party, try choosing a fragrance with a bold note such as cassia.  If you'd describe yourself as sexy, opt for jasmine, tuberose and orange flower, which offer a seductive scent.  And if you're more feminine, notes like bergamot, lavender, and rose will leave you with a light, sweet scent.
3. Don’t Sniff More Than Three:  Be sure not to sniff more than three scents in a row during a shopping trip, and spray the leading contender in the crook of your arm.  Live with it for awhile - samples are a girl's best friend.  You'll know you've found the magic formula when you like both the way it smells right away and over time.  The final clue is getting the seal of approval from loved ones and even strangers.  Compliments -- when people like how you smell, you know you've chosen the right one.
4. Make It Your Own By Layering and Mixing Scents:  For a truly unique scent, consider layering two fragrances.  The trick is to blend notes that complement each other.  Jasmine, vanilla, rose and citrus work well with most scents while stronger notes such as patchouli and vetiver, don't.  Use a classic fragrance as a base, such as Chanel No. 5, and adding something on top.  Be daring and take it in a different direction -- you'll end up with something that's truly unique and memorable.