Wedding Planning Tips for Brides -- from iVillage Wedding Expert Anne Chertoff

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Finding the right shoe is very important. In addition to matching your wedding dress it should also be comfortable, because you’ll be standing and dancing in them all night long.
I learned about a new online shoe store, Piperlime, which has a great collection of wedding day shoes. The company has partnered with celebrity wedding planner, Mindy Weiss. (I told you about her amazing book a few weeks ago.) Mindy suggests that every bride should have two pairs of shoes for her wedding: A fantasy shoe and a reality shoe. The “fantasy shoes” are really over the top gorgeous, perfect for photos, and the “reality shoes” are more about comfort and being able to dance and mingle with your guests all night long. This way you’ll have one dramatic style for your formal portraits and ceremony, and then slip into something more comfortable for your reception.
One of my favorite features on Piperlime is that they offer FREE shipping and returns. So you can order a number of pairs in time for your first fitting, try them all on and return the ones that don’t work. Remember your seamstress won't be able to hem your wedding dress if you don't have the shoes you will be wearing.
The site also offers these shoe shopping tips from Mindy:
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Skip the rhinestones and jewels on your shoes. They can snag on your dress.
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Don’t forget to break in your shoes. Start walking in them about two weeks before the wedding. (This is also a good tip for your groom. -- AC)
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Scuff up the soles of your shoes (and his) with sandpaper so you don’t slip when you’re headed down the aisle (or on the dance floor -- AC).
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Slingbacks can be hard to keep on your foot, so pick a pump or something that goes around the ankle.
The two shoes featured above are examples of the styles available on the website. Click these links to learn more about this fantasy shoe and reality shoe, or click here to see the entire Piperlime bridal collection.
Whenever I go to a wedding I go as both a guest and a weddings editor. It’s hard not to look at everything and think how I can turn the details of this particular wedding into a blog post. And that’s where this post came from - the wedding I went to in
Dave and I got there a little early to take some photos with friends, and some how we ended up in the room the bridal party was getting ready/hanging out in. It was a rather large room with couches and tables and chairs, and scattered throughout were bottles of beer and water, as well as bags of pretzels and chips.
I don’t know if the bride and groom, the location or the members of the bridal party brought in the drinks and snacks. The point is that it’s a great idea to have both snacks and drinks for your bridal party because they will be waiting around all day, helping you get ready, taking pictures, setting up the favors, etc.
I came across a company that specializes in creating food baskets just for this purpose and wanted to share their information with you. It’ll save you time and energy by just ordering what you want instead of having to add “buy food and snacks” to your wedding checklist.
Marrylicious creates gourmet gift baskets specifically for wedding parties. They have three packages – Tulip, Rose and Orchid – and each comes with a selection of gourmet treats as well as a wedding day emergency kit. You can also create a custom package if you want to have a themed basket or need to fit certain dietary restrictions. Prices start at $100. The company is based in
And brides, remember to drink clear liquids (water, seltzer, vodka) through a straw so you don’t spill anything on your dress or smudge your lipstick before you walk down the aisle.
That’s what the bride in the new film Made of Honor did. Unfortunately, or fortunately, for her, her man-of-honor took on the role to bust up the wedding and get the bride for himself.
I had a chance to see a preview of Made of Honor earlier this week, and I have to say I thought it was a lot of fun. It was a traditional romantic comedy, but of course it was filled with tons of wedding ideas that I think can help you plan for your big day.
From the shower (one of the funniest scenes in the film) to the dresses and hairstyles and incorporating cultural traditions into your wedding, you’re sure to not only enjoy the film, but get some great ideas from it.
I don’t want to tell you what I liked the best, because I don’t want to give anything away, but just like my review of 27 Dresses earlier this year, Made of Honor is the perfect movie for date night with your fiancé, or a day out with your girlfriends.
I’ll give you until Monday to catch it, because I’ve been waiting all week to write about one particular part of the film.
Have a great weekend!

Are you looking for a unique place to register for wedding gifts? You may want to check out Branch. This home store, specializing in eco-friendly products, sells everything including tabletop, furniture and items for the bedroom, bath and garden.
Their products are very modern, and I have to say, I absolutely loved so many things I had to stop myself from clicking “add to cart.”
Branch has a registry section so you can easily register for items and add a link to it on your wed-site.
The coaster/trivet set featured above is one of my favorite items. I think they’re great for entertaining and flat enough to store easily.
Remember wedding movie week back in January? Well, it’s back – sort of. There are two wedding film-related events taking place next week that I want to share with you, and one of them is accompanied by some expert tips from the industry’s most celebrated vendors.
So here’s the first wedding movie post. It’s an event that you may be interested in attending if you’re still looking for your wedding dress.
27 Dresses, with Katherine Heigl, will be available on DVD on April 29th. To celebrate, a fashion show and contest will take place in Central Park, and one lucky bride will win a $10,000 wedding dress from Kleinfeld Bridal, plus a few other fabulous prizes.
Interested? Here’s how you can enter the contest. First you have to decide if you have worn one of the world’s ugliest bridesmaid dresses. If so, and you still have it hanging in your closet, register at 27dressesdvd.com/event and then bring your dress and a lot of courage to the Central Park Boathouse – East 72nd Street and Park Drive North – at 7am, Monday, April 28th.
If you are one of the lucky brides-to-be to be chosen as having the ugliest bridesmaid dress, you will model it to a panel of judges – Malin Akerman (she plays Katherin Heigel’s sister in the movie), fashion designer Randolph Duke and “Project Runway” finalist Chris March – in fashion show style at 10am Monday morning.
And just a reminder, if you do have some unwanted bridesmaid dresses hanging in your closet you can do a good thing, and get a tax deduction, by donating your unwanted dresses to The Princess Project who collects evening gowns and gives them to high school students who can't afford a prom dress.
A few weeks ago I received a press release that this week is National Parks Week, and I thought to myself, how fabulous would it be to get married in a park!
I did a little research on the subject and found out that ARAMARK Park & Resorts, in addition to providing concessions for a number of national parks, also hosts weddings. From visiting the company’s Web site, I found some amazing
Wherever you are planning – or dreaming – of getting married you may want to check out the national parks in your area. And remember yesterday’s tip on outdoor wedding locations: Make sure that the outdoor space has an indoor alternative in case it rains on your wedding day.
One of your first tasks as a bride is to find the perfect location, which will help set the tone for your wedding. When you start searching for your ceremony and reception site keep a few things in mind:
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Your guest list. You don’t need the final list, but you should have a rough estimate.
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Your budget. Having an idea of what your wedding budget is before you go looking will ensure that you’ll find a location you can afford. You don’t want to fall in love with a space that’s over $250 a head, if your budget will only allow $75 a head.
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Your wedding’s look and feel. Do you want to get married outdoors? At home? In a church? By knowing what you want, you’ll be able to narrow down the spaces you schedule appointments at, and won’t waste time looking at spaces you’ll never book.
I originally wanted to get married at my grandparent’s home, where my parents were married. Unfortunately, the space wasn’t big enough to accommodate all of our guests, and my grandmother refused to cut down a large tree in the middle of the yard. (We ended up having the rehearsal dinner, a BBQ, in the yard.) When we went searching for locations, I insisted that we find a site that had some outdoor space. In one weekend, we visited a dozen spaces - country clubs, mansions you can rent, hotels - and of course at the last space we went to was the perfect spot: a synagogue with a beautiful ballroom (in our color palette, pastels) and a small garden in the middle of the building for photos and cocktail hour. Needless to say, it was a rainy day in June, and while we did get to take some photos outside, we didn’t get to use the garden.
Anyway, the lesson is: if you are looking for an outdoor space for your wedding, make sure you have a rain plan - either a facility on the property where you can hold your ceremony and/or reception if it’s raining, or reserve some tents and a few days before the wedding have them installed so you’re covered, literally, in case the weatherman predicts rain.
For the rest of this week, I thought I’d highlight some unique locations you may want to consider for your wedding, so I may post more than once a day if I come across some other interesting tips and products. And if you know of a great space for a wedding, please post a comment with a link to it for other brides to see.
Remember my post sometime ago about getting married or honeymooning in Disney World? Well, here's your chance to get a FREE honeymoon at the Magic Kingdom. Get Married (the TV show on Lifetime) is giving couples a chance to win a honeymoon at Walt Disney World! Here’s what you have to do:
Create a 30-second to 2-minute video telling why you and your Prince Charming deserve this magical honeymoon. Register to enter and submit your video on GetMarried.com before May 26, 2008.
The
week-long honeymoon prize includes round trip airfare for two, limousine
transportation to and from the airport, two 7-day Magic Your Way Park Hopper
tickets, 6-nights at a Disney Resort Hotel, which includes one night at the Cinderella
Castle Suite.
If you are chosen as the lucky bride and groom, I highly recommend you get tickets to the Hoop Dee Doo Musical Review. They have delicious food and a very entertaining show. We went in 1997, but I'm sure it's just as good now as it was then.
iVillage is not a sponsor and is not responsible for the administration of the contest on GetMarried.com. For additional information, including the official rules, please visit their site at www.GetMarried.com.

So I couldn’t sleep last night. And we still haven’t gotten our couch so I couldn’t lay down, watch TV and just zone out. I just thought and thought and thought some more. What did I think about? Everything! When the couch would arrive, how we were going to pull off 2 Seders in our apartment this weekend, how I was going to explain the new home office furniture I just ordered. (Dave: I promise it was on sale.)
You know how things just roll around in your head. Well, I got to thinking. When I was planning my wedding, I would be up for hours just thinking of all the things I had to do and coming up with ideas for the wedding. I think that’s when Dave suggested I leave a notepad and pen on my nightstand so I could write ideas that came to me in the night.
But I didn’t need a notepad. I needed to get rid of all the stress.
A few days ago I got an email on how to de-stress using a few simple yoga techniques, and I thought I’d share them with you:
- Shoulder Shrugs
Sit on a cushion and shrug shoulders up as you inhale through your nose, and let shoulders relax as you exhale through your mouth, letting out a big sigh. Repeat 5-10 times. We hold a lot of tension in our shoulders, neck and upper back. This will help relax those muscles.
- Cat/Dog
On hands and knees in table position, extend spine by letting belly, ribs and chest move toward the ground while lifting head and tailbone as you inhale. Then draw navel in, rounding the back and tucking head and tail under as you exhale. Repeat five times. This will help move tension out of your back and neck.
- Child’s Pose
From table position, open knees wide, and sit back toward heels, resting forehead on the floor, stretching arms on the floor in front of you. Take 5-10 deep, three-part breaths into your belly, ribs, chest, and back, continuing to draw navel in at the end of your exhales. Forward bends help us retreat, take a break, and restore our energy.
These yoga technique tips are from Noel Schroeder, creator of Kandalaya Yoga and an instructor at The Sports Club/LA in
Hope this helps you unwind. As soon as I get a few photos from an event I went to on Tuesday, I'll give you another great idea on how you can let go of your planning stress and get in shape for the big day.
I went to a really fun event last night – well, actually I went to 2, but I’ll write about the other one tomorrow or Friday. I’m waiting for pictures to arrive. Anyway, I went to this fabulous event last night for OxiClean. You know the guy with the beard that yells at you through the TV that OxiClean can clean anything.
Well, they were showcasing their complete line of cleaning products and had a demo to show us how easy and well the product works. And it really does work, just like in the commercials! But I had to ask: How can OxiClean help brides?
And here’s the answer: OxiClean Spray-A-Way Instant Stain Remover. This travel size bottle ($2.99 in drugstores) is the perfect addition to your wedding day emergency kit. Now, I’m NOT saying that you should spray OxiClean on the front of your wedding dress, because I don’t know how the fabric of your dress with beading and embroidery will respond, but I think it’s great to have on hand for your groom and groomsmen’s suits and dress shirts, as well as for your bridesmaids and children in the wedding.
If you’re making a hospitality basket for the bathroom, this would be a great addition to it. (Unless you’re afraid a guest will take it as their wedding favor.) Or you could throw it in with your luggage for your honeymoon, so you won’t have to worry about finding a laundromat on the exotic island you’ll be staying on.
The photo above is of me and Clinton Kelly, from TLC’s show What Not to Wear.
This past weekend was Bridal Market, where designers show off their latest collection of wedding gowns, headpieces, veils, bags and shoes.
Unfortunately, I was under the weather and unable to attend most of the shows this season, but I have been able to get a quick glimpse at some of the fabulous frocks that were shown through Brides.com's new wedding blog, Wedded Bits.
Click the link above to get a sneak peak at what styles will be hitting bridal salons next fall, and as I start getting photos from designers I'll upload them here.

Mindy Weiss is well-known for the unbelievable weddings she has planned
for Hollywood’s brightest stars, including: Jessica Simpson & Nick Lachey,
Gwen Stefani & Gavin Rossdale and Heidi Klum and Seal. And now you can have Mindy help plan
your wedding, because she has written one of the most thorough wedding planning
books I have ever seen.
From planning advice to a glossary of terms and helpful worksheets, you
pretty much have an expert wedding planner (and I mean a person) in the palm of
your hands.
The Wedding Book is available at bookstores nationwide, or you can
click here and buy it at Amazon.com.
Below is Mindy’s book tour schedule, so you can get a signed copy of
Mindy’s book, and ask her detailed questions about your own wedding.
THE
WEDDING BOOK: THE BIG BOOK FOR YOUR BIG DAY
Book
Tour Schedule
New
York, NY
Tuesday,
April 15, 5:00 - 7:00pm
Kleinfeld Bridal (by appointment for fitting & book signing) - 110 West 20th Street
Philadelphia
Wednesday,
April 16, 6:00 - 8:00 pm
David's Bridal at The Metroplex - 2600 Chemical Road
Washington,
DC
Thursday,
April 17, 12:00 - 2:00 pm
Books-A-Million - 11 Dupont Cir NW # 1
Toronto
Friday,
April 18th, 1:00 - 2:00pm
William Ashley Manulife Centre - 55 Bloor St. West Toronto
Los
Angeles
Saturday
April 19, 12:00 -2:00 pm
Vroman's Fine Writing, Gifts & Stationery - 667 E. Colorado Blvd. Pasadena, CA
San
Diego
Tuesday,
April 22, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
BORDERS - 1072 Camino Del Rio North
Phoenix
Wednesday,
April 23, 7:00 - 8:15 pm
Changing Hands - 6428 S. McClintock Drive Tempe, AZ
Denver
Thursday,
April 24
The Brown Palace Hotel w/ Tattered Cover - 321 17th Street
**This
is a ticketed event. For tickets
go to: brownpalace.com or call 303.297.3111
Seattle
Friday,
April 25, 6:00 - 8:00 pm
University Bookstore - 990 102nd Ave NE Bellevue, WA
Houston
Monday,
April 28, 6:00 - 8:00 pm
David's Bridal at 610 & San Felipe Shopping Center - 4520 San Felipe Street
Dallas
Tuesday,
April 29, 1:00 - 4:00 pm
Neiman Marcus – Downtown - 1618
Main Street
Chicago
Wednesday,
April 30, 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm
The Ritz-Carlton - 160 East Pearson Street
** This event is ticketed, for more info go to: fourseasons.com/chicagorc
Detroit
Thursday,
May 1, 7:00 - 9:00 pm
Barnes & Noble - 3120 Fairlane Drive Allen Park, MI

