I’m sure you’ve seen My Big Fat Greek Wedding. It was on cable the other night, and I just think it’s hysterical. I’m sure almost all brides can relate to the family dynamic. While you are probably not going to order a dress that you think makes you look like a “snow beast” there is an important planning lesson you can learn from the movie.

Adding cultural and religious traditions to your wedding ceremony and reception can add to the beauty of your wedding day. Talk to your parents and grandparents about what they did at their wedding, or cultural customs that they are aware of that you can add to your plans. Your wedding officiant can also help you discover beautiful traditions you may have never even heard of.

There are traditions for both the ceremony — prayers, readings, vows — and reception — cultural music, dances, special foods. I found a list of traditions for over a dozen different cultures on one of my favorite wedding favor websites, Beaucoup. But Google your own cultural or religious background with the word “wedding” and I’m sure you’ll find hundreds of sites with great ideas.

If you come across any traditions or customs post them here and share them with fellow brides-to-be!